How To Date A Scorpio Girl
Dating Suitability with Scorpio Girls
Scorpio : 23 October – 22 November
The Scorpio is a very duplicitous, very hard to penetrate personality type; nonetheless it is the most desirable. Passion, hedonism, and strong-mindedness typify this type of potential (and very common) mate.
Like frozen fire, despite the paradox, flailing over-emotionality and sexual desires seem to be too discretely concealed beneath a cool, seemingly-apathetic layer, one that is hard to penetrate. That said, the game requires a willingness to compete and rightfully “earn” the affections of this venomous being, though that may prove a near-impossible challenge to most (this scorpion is ruthless).
An option that may be viable in capturing the heart of this needy heart-breaker would be the subtle offer of stability and security: being an emotionally-supportive safe haven would be something a Scorpio would find appealing, so long as you can withstand the sting. This ticking time bomb is very much emotionally complex and tightly wound, a trait-that could surface if properly dismantled.
While this type of person is self-sufficient in character, loneliness is the last thing this person seeks. This person seeks commitment and devotion to attend to her every need, but not to the point where she feels trapped. Excitement is crucial to this type of person, being a junkie for euphoria whether it should derive from wild sex or some form of transgression: satisfaction must come at every angle to fulfill this libertine, though one partner can be enough to do so (and is why pickiness is necessary in finding this singular bastion).
Some problems that many might find repulsive about a Scorpio are narcissistic and monomaniacal tendencies that are quite overt. While so much needs to be absorbed, very little is often reciprocated and expressed outwardly; this person strives to fill in personal voids before being concerned with that of a counterpart, but such strides ensure only the best for that person (which is to say, you can be the best for that person if circumstance places you with this person).
The imagery conveyed by a scorpion is very threatening, but only as a self-defense mechanism; the stinger is only a defensive measure. If you encounter a Scorpio, say, at a club (where this personality often takes the form of a girl in heels and the line “buy me a drink,”), the best bet is to leave plenty of breathing room and a strong game face. Prepare for an interplanetary battle the likes of Captain Kirk never faced in his five year voyage to seek out new life (and using Star Trek references on this girl is especially ill-conceived).
She has to be the exclusive item of interest (the “catch”) and wants to be well aware that you feel you deserve her before indulging in your own personality quirks. The best way to avoid the sting is to expect the sting and be ready to catch it with open arms; then maybe you can land between the pincers and into this little critter’s heart. All in all, the Scorpion is really a “catch”, and that is what makes all the effort worth it!